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May 05, 2023

Should You Be Using Your Vibrator on Your Boyfriend?

Is your boyfriend jealous of your vibrator? Or is he jealous that you have one?

Is your boyfriend jealous of your vibrator? Or is he jealous that you have one? Maybe he's a little curious. Don't let him miss out on the vibes!

So he doesn't have a clit.

Honestly, we feel a little bad for him, considering how many nerve endings the clitoris has. It's about twice as many as the penis. Fun, fun, fun fact. But! That doesn't mean he doesn't have erogenous zones that a little buzz could really tickle—literally and figuratively.

It doesn't mean just *boop!* tapping the vibrator on his tip or any random area along the shaft. Joe Russo and CJ Ramsdell are the co-founders of Butter Wellness, a modern men's sexual wellness educational site and brand, and they share some insight.

"Vibrators can intensify sensations and pleasure when applied to any erogenous zone. An erogenous zone is any place on the body with heightened sensitivity that can elicit a sexual response when stimulated."

So just where do we put a vibe to give our guy a new sensation?

"Just like people with vaginas, people with penises have plenty of erogenous zones such as the penis, frenulum, perineum, prostate, and testicles. Shared erogenous zones across both parties include the ears, neck, inner thigh, and armpits, among others. Applying a vibrator to any of these areas can introduce new sensations and increase stimulation, leading to a more pleasurable experience. If you’re only sticking to the vaginal area, you are missing out on the fun and pleasure of exploring the many other erogenous zones," they tell us.

Brb. Going home and putting our vibrator in our armpit to see what happens.

"One of the best places to use a vibrator on someone with a penis is the perineum, otherwise known as the gooch or the sandbar."

Sorry. Pausing to LOL because "gooch" just sounds funny and we’ve quite cliterally never heard anyone call it "the sandbar" but we absolutely will be from now on. Ok, moving on.

"Applying a vibrator to the perineum, located between the balls and anus, stimulates the prostate (aka the male ‘G-spot’) externally. This can create a full-body orgasm that is much more intense and pleasurable than the conventional penile orgasm."

Intrigue! But when is the best time to do this? Do we try it during action? No action?

"Incorporating a vibrator into oral sex can take your game to a whole new level. While giving oral, simultaneously apply the vibrator with a bit of pressure to the area between the balls and the anus (the perineum).

Alternatively, you can experiment with applying the vibrator to thefrenulum (the underside of the head of the penis), penis shaft, or balls. The combination of oral stimulation and the stimulation of the vibrator are a duo that is second to none. Trust us on this one."

We’ll take your word for it, fellas.

"Using a vibrator amplifies many of the pleasurable sensations one typically experiences. This can lead to an orgasm that feels more powerful and complete than a traditional orgasm. Using a vibrator on the perineum, as mentioned above, can also increase blood flow to the pelvic region and lead to stronger erections."

We’ll also take stronger erections. Thank you.

Ladies with (penis owner) lovers, do try this at home.

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