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Jun 01, 2023

12 Best Butterfly Vibrators For Clit Play In 2023, Per Experts

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They'll give you all the fluttery feelings.

If you're a person with a vagina, you know that clitoral stimulation is a must when it comes to a pleasurable sexy experience. You might be familiar with, or even already own, a vibrator that focuses on clit play—such as a rabbit—but there is another design that focuses purely on external pleasure: the butterfly vibrator.

"The clitoris is really the star of the show when it comes to [people with vaginas] and their pleasure," says Kristin Thomas, a certified sex coach and founder of Open The Door Coaching. "The butterfly design is, of course, going to make sure that, while the vagina is getting internal stimulation, the clitoris is getting the movement and vibration it needs to get the job done."

A butterfly vibrator isn't for everyone, though. In fact, if you've never used a vibrator before, a butterfly probably isn't where you should start, says sex and relationship expert Tara Suwinyattichaiporn, Ph.D. "You want to build confidence and competence the first time you use a vibrator," she says. Unfortunately, there may be a bit of a learning curve with a butterfly vibe or others may find it really intense.

When it comes to shopping for a butterfly vibrator, you should keep pricing, battery life, and—most importantly—material in mind, says Thomas. "It needs to be silicone or body-safe. If it feels tacky or squishy, it's cheap [material]. You don't want that. Suwinyattichaiporn also says you should be aware that most butterfly vibrators tend to have a pretty loud vibration. "So far none of the butterfly vibrators [I've tried] are quiet."

With all of that in mind, it might seem daunting to start shopping for one, so let Women's Health do the heavy lifting. Below, find the 12 best butterfly vibrators that will get you fluttering.

Of all the butterfly vibrators out there, the Venus G is among the best. Its 50-minute battery life and 10 vibration modes will keep the good times going. Its discreet, petite size also makes it's easy to maneuver it on and into all your fave sweet spots.

Rave Review: "The vibrations are very intense and my fiancé loves that he can control it with the remote to keep me on edge!"

While this "butterfly" is technically a bird, the design is just as (if not more) stimulating. Its thrusting motion leaves little work for you to do, but brings all the pleasure. The vibrator is one of Adam & Eve's bestselling toys.

Rave Review: "All I have to say is this gave me the most intense orgasm of my life—it was money well spent. It was a little awkward at first, but once I got used to it it was GREAT!!!! Every girl needs one of these. Seriously, I saw stars."

With three vibration speeds and seven pulsating patterns, this Pipedream strap-on provides discreet, yet powerful stimulation. It's remote-controlled and can be worn under clothes so it's ideal for partner play—in or outside of the bedroom.

Rave Review: "This item is so much fun. We played with it in public and laughed so much. But as much fun as it is, there is also the functional side. It worked very well for us."

One of the pricier options on this list, but with good reason, the Shameless Tease has four thrusting functions and seven vibration patterns—it can go up to 850 (!!) thrusts a minute. The vibe is also designed with impressive girth and a 50-minute battery life for continuous fun.

Rave Review: "Not only is this toy excellent, but the entire process of receiving this toy couldn't have been handled more professionally, patiently, or kindly."

A more abstract design for a butterfly, Dame's Eva is a cult-favorite. Its wearable, hands-free design makes it perfect for partner play. Plus, it has a super flexible body, so you can be sure to get it on just how you like it.

Rave Review: "Well, I will first say this it is very effective. Especially with a partner penetrating at the same time, it pushes up against you and is very stimulating (for both people)."

The Desire leaves very little to be desired. Made with a bulbous tip, it's designed for "magnificent blended pleasure," since the vibe can stimulate both the clit and G-spot at the same time. Plus, it is rechargeable and comes with a discreet carrying case.

Rave Review: "The toy is worth the purchase. I was not disappointed, especially when it's a tough task to get me to orgasm. It really helped and got me to my goal. It does spice things up and is very handy when you’re doing it solo. I highly recommend!"

If you don't want to buy a completely new product to feel the benefits of a butterfly vibrator, you can simply buy this attachment for the wand you already have. It'll provide plenty of clitoral stimulation using textured nodules and flexible antennae for a long, slow tease.

Rave Review: "An essential addition to your wand. It sits nicely on the clitoris and gives you quite an amazing experience :)."

Don't be fooled by the simple look and price of the Cal Exotics Butterfly Kiss—this vibrator is intense. It's super affordable, but it'll hit all your sweet spots with its tapered shaft, nubby design, and three vibration speeds.

Rave Review: "I always come back to this particular one. It's the best one I use in the shower and elsewhere!!"

The original Venus Butterfly design is a much more affordable alternative than its successor, but just as stimulating. The egg-style vibrator is easy to clean, use, and allows for hands-free fun in the clit and labial areas. However, it does require two AA batteries, so keep that extra purchase in mind while shopping.

Rave Review: It was AMAZING!!! I lost count of how many [orgasms] I had after a while. I was shocked when I had a squirting orgasm for the first time! A must have item!"

This butterfly vibe provides no-fuss pleasure. It's made with dual-motor technology to give you exactly what you need using eight speeds and vibration modes. The toy can also be submerged in water and comes with a wireless remote you can work yourself or pass off to someone else.

Rave Review: "As a beginner, I was hesitant to buy something pricey without being sure if this was what I'd want, but I have ZERO regrets. This toy is super comfortable, even for me—a smaller person—to use. With the different patterns, you can try a new thing every night and never get bored!"

This butterfly vibrator can be worn around your finger and is great for supplemental stimulation during partner play or for some discreet solo use. With 10 vibration speeds, you'll definitely have no problem finding your groove.

Rave Review: "It is great to use alone or with a partner. I definitely love it! I do recommend it!"

A best vibrator list wouldn't be complete without a Lelo option, but the brand's take on the butterfly is a bit different. Though it lacks the traditional butterfly design, the Nea 3 provides full and intense clitoral stimulation, like the other vibes on this list. It's ideal for beginners, since its petite design is suited for sexual exploration of your body.

Rave Review: "Overall, possibly the most perfect clitoral vibrator design out there. The shape contours to a woman's body to hit all the right spots. The small size lets it tuck into the curve of the fingers or the palm of the hand instead of having to be held like a microphone."

Olivia Evans (she/her) is an editorial assistant at Women's Health. Her work has previously appeared in The Cut and Teen Vogue. She loves covering topics where culture and wellness intersect. In her free time, she enjoys cooking, running, and watching rom-coms.

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